Secure your relationship: 3 things you should never tell your man about yourself no matter what
Ladies…Before I start, I will like you to understand that I have no intention of selling you the idea that you should be secretive to your part. In fact, secrets destroy a relationship. You should do well to avoid it.
That being said, you should also know that somethings are better left unsaid. The 3 under listed points are important things in a relationship that if not handled maturely by a woman has the potential of ruining the whole affair. Secure your relationship by being tight mouth sometimes.
Information sharing not only establish trust in a relationship but it also strengthens the bond between two couples. But some information is absolutely irrelevant and should be avoided at all cost.
THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE YOU HAVE DATED/SLEPT WITH
Before you guys met and started being in a relationship, He must have known you have dated before. After all, you were not a v*rgin, were you? Then leave it there. No need going on and on giving unnecessary information that has the potential to destroy what you have built with him.
Don’t for once assume information such as this is trivial and has no consequences. On the contrary, it can be very damaging.Imagine you’re dating a very sensitive person who’s jealous and judgmental, telling them something like this could trigger an emotion that can lead to the end of that relationship. There are people who somehow believe that the number of people you sleep with or date is a direct reflection of who you are. My dear, even if he ask don’t tell.
YOUR LOVE FOR MATERIALISM AND MONEY
Nobody likes to be poor or wretched looking. No one especially women. And he knows it. Don’t go about telling him your obsession with material things and money. Am a man trust me, you should keep such information to yourself.This will secure your relationship.
Truth is, you may not necessary say it in words. Your actions and deeds will betray you. But as much as possible keep it on the low. You don’t want your partner thinking you are simply with him because of material gains and his money and not really love Or is that the message you want to send across? If not be wise. Don’t go about being too obvious about money and material things.
HOW MUCH YOU LOVE S3X
Who in his right senses doesn’t love s3x? We all do. Some people just pretend about it but in reality, everybody does. It doesn’t mean you should go about blabbering about it to your partner.
For starters, Most men are afraid of dating women who openly admit to loving sex very much. The fear stems from the fact that he feels he can’t trust you to be faithful when he is not around. And is the truth.
Secondly, It can be used against you sometime in the future. You see, nobody foresees bad times happening but we all hit the rock once in a while. You may not stay with him forever. Will you be happy with him spreading that you are a s3x freak? I don’t think so. So now you see why such information is better left unsaid?
It’s very important you do all you can to secure your relationship.Love your man with all your heart and all your being but apply a little caution too. After all, you didn’t go in for a short course. Did you?…lol
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